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On the Chair with Denise Albert, Award-Winning Journalist, Television Producer & Co-founder of The Moms and Mamarazzi Celebrity Events
Tell us a little about you.
"DENISE IS A BREAST CANCER SURVIVOR AND ADVOCATE, AS WELL AS AN AWARD-WINNING JOURNALIST, TELEVISION PRODUCER, AND CO-FOUNDER OF THE MOMS AND MAMARAZZI CELEBRITY EVENTS. SHE IS A PROUD DIVORCED MOM OF TWO INCREDIBLE BOYS AND PASSIONATE ABOUT HELPING OTHERS IN THEIR FIGHT AGAINST CANCER AND CURRENTLY LAUNCHING HER NEW VENTURE, MY CANCER FAMILY (MYCANCERFAMILY)."
Upon diagnosis, what was your first thought?
It was terrifying. I couldn’t believe it and I remember thinking that I may not be around to raise my kids. That was truly horrifying. They were only 6 and 9 at the time.
Sometimes it’s hard to “thrive,” we all have days where we are just trying to survive. What is something that gets you through on the hardest days?
I’ve always gotten through hard times by planning things to look forward to. It can be anything from a trip with my kids, a birthday party or celebration for any and all occasions, a date, a drink with a friend, or a girl's getaway!
Who is another woman you have admired on this journey that has shared a similar experience with breast cancer/cancer (please type what type of cancer you had/have)?
There are so many! My friend Gwen was diagnosed a few months after I was and our treatment was the same so we “went through it” together. My friend Ashley was also diagnosed a few months after I was but we had different kinds and very different treatments and I almost feel like it’s a different disease but I admire how she went through it too. There are a lot of women I’ve met through social media I admire all of them for sharing their stories and being open about their own journeys. Sharing helps others in ways you can’t even imagine.
We all need a good support system; who makes up yours?
I have a great family that is led by my mom. She’s my best friend and my biggest supporter. My dad and my sister-in-law are also part of my support system along with many close friends. I have a large family and really incredible friends. My boys are also great support for me now - especially because they’re older (17 and almost 14). We are extremely close and open and honest and talk about everything!
Through your journey, what are some resources you have found that would be helpful to other women?
I really pieced it all together…and found everything overwhelming and really wanted everything in 1 place. Doctors tell you not to google, and I tried to listen but it’s so hard not to. All of my experience led me to where I am today, which is launching a new venture called My Cancer Family. I want to help others diagnosed with Cancer with resources and information and community in one place.
What is something society gets wrong about young women battling breast cancer and cancer in general?
Interesting question. The most important thing is early detection. Every single doctor should make sure women get screened. I think there also should be screenings earlier and also more accessible no matter what your health insurance may be. It’s also important for children of breast cancer patients to start their screening young — even if you don’t have the BRCA gene, family members often should be screened at 25. There’s very little information “out there” about this. My nieces, for instance, along with my boys are supposed to get checked starting at 25. I don’t want to alarm anyone, but if we want to do better, screenings and early detection is EVERYTHING!
You come across another woman who has just received her diagnosis. What is one piece of advice you’d have for them at that moment?
The first thing I always tell every single person who calls or messages me is “this is the hardest time. The unknown. The tests. The appointments. The unknown path”. Hopefully, once you have a plan for treatment, the mental and emotional part will slightly ease up.
Because we have to (we love music here) - what’s the last song you listened to?
My son’s new song. He’s an aspiring artist and went to the studio this weekend and woke up excited to tell me and share it with me, and said it’s his best one yet. Watch out for him!
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On the Chair with Mercedes Wilson, Founder and Executive Director of For Our Daughters, CEO of Sadie's Relish & Co-Host of AM Buffalo (WKBW,ABC)
Tell us a little about you.
I'm a wife, mommy, daughter, cousin, friend, advocate, country girl, foodie and so much more. I am the most calm right after prayer and when listening to music. I love meeting new people and learning their stories. I am not a surface person, I love to learn what makes people tick, what makes them happy.
Upon diagnosis, what was your first thought?
How long do I have to live? Who is going to take care of my children?
Sometimes it’s hard to “thrive,” we all have days where we are just trying to survive. What is something that gets you through on the hardest days?
Music, I turn on Whitney Houston. Tears have healing power as well. I also know that you appreciate the good days because bad days exist, so bad days don't last always.
Who is another woman you have admired on this journey that has shared a similar experience with breast cancer/cancer (please type what type of cancer you had/have)?
I had stage 2 estrogen receptor breast cancer. Are you really going to make me name one? I have a whole tribe here in Buffalo/Western NY! You will get me in trouble! LOL. They ALL inspire me, seriously, they are unmatched, one text and they all come running.
We all need a good support system; who makes up yours?
My friends and family, my husband and children!
Through your journey, what are some resources you have found that would be helpful to other women?
Other women, we all need a tribe. The tribe that recognizes when you go quiet and check on you, the ones that bring you meals when you don't feel well or just text I love you when you need it.
What is something society gets wrong about young women battling breast cancer and cancer in general?
That our strength means we don't need anything. That our first "no I don't need anything" means you should stop trying.
You come across another woman who has just received her diagnosis. What is one piece of advice you’d have for them at that moment?
It's ok to not be ok. You have just gained an amazing sisterhood that you will have for life!
Because we have to (we love music here) - what’s the last song you listened to?
Actually this week I have been listening to the queen Mary J Blige and I just listened to Mary J Blige Just Fine!!!
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#ChangeMakerMoms: Q&A with Lifestyle Producer for TODAY with Hoda & Jenna, Sarah Clagett
Tell us a little about you!
"HI! I’m a mom of two boys, a proud wife, and Lifestyle Producer for TODAY with Hoda & Jenna. I also love Pilates & red wine."
Balance is key. How do you stay organized between family & work?
"BALANCE is tough. Sometimes, I think it doesn’t exist. It seems there is always one item, subject, or person that gets more attention. At present, I’m really trying to focus on my family as well as career. My boys will only be young once, so I want to truly enjoy every minute.. One day I’ll look back and think about all these moments at baseball and soccer games, art class, school drop off and pick up, and I’ll wish I could do it all again. I don’t want to miss a thing. Please don’t tell my boss, but when I’m 80, I doubt that I’ll be yearning for all that time in the office. Having said that, I also believe I have a tremendous flexible job and work my tush off. Plus, I think being a hands-on mom makes me a better TV producer."
Name another mom who inspires you? Why?
"At this stage of my life, there are many inspirational moms in my circle of family & friends - with their own daily struggles doing the best they can and giving it their all each day. I can’t list one – but I can list 50 easily. My own mom inspires me. She always has been, and still is, there for my brothers and me, during our childhood and as adults. She pushes me when I need it. She pushed and inspired me to move to NYC from the Midwest. She encouraged me to set high goals and self-expectations with my career at NBC TODAY. She coached me and had my back when I bought my first home (and third) in NYC. I might never have seen my own potential without my mom. She’s always been my biggest cheerleader and her actions have inspired me to be a better mom to my two boys. Nobody loves you more than your mom."
Some days are tough, what's a quote that keeps you moving?
"I try to remember when the day is tough, it’s just a phase. Everything is just a phase. While the phases can be really tough, they, too, will pass. Kevin Bacon once talked about phases in the documentary, “Fatherhood.” I think about it regularly and I believe it’ll stick with me for life. Soon the phase changes and ends and that phase will be a memory in the past. The next phase will be a challenge for the future."
What’s your pump-up song for starting your day?
"Right now my pump up song is “Praise the Lord,” by Breland. I also just love everything about COLDPLAY music."
Drop some organizations you are passionate about that gives back to women and/or momma's around the world.
"My son Wyatt was a micro-preemie born at 24 weeks. The NICU experience is a trauma for any mom & the “Journey Bead” program was developed to help celebrate milestones and to help parents with PTSD. I give my love and admiration to any organization that helps preemies, especially groups that focus on the familial mental needs of parents during those challenging times."
#ChangeMakerMoms: Q&A with Merchandising Strategist Anosha Lewis
Tell us a little about you!
"I am a born and bred New Yorker. I am the daughter of Indian immigrant parents who tried their best raising me & my brother in this crazy city — 40 years later I find myself doing the same with my kids. Each day is filled with varying emotions –worry/fear/anxiety balanced with awe/wonder/amazement that they are now part of the fabric of NYC and vice versa."
What do you do?
"I work for Madison Square Garden. I lead the merchandising strategy for their Christmas Spectacular Show Starring the Radio City Rockettes. More recently, my husband Mark shot a documentary on the grim NYC pandemic shutdown, called Outside In which also featured my family. It is making its rounds in a few film festivals and will be showcased at the Producer’s Club on May 16th at 7pm."
Balance is key. How do you stay organized between family & work?
"This is a trick question. At work, to-do lists keep me sane. At home with family, to-do lists are generally thrown out the window. Fortunately, my current work environment is filled with women at different stages in their life and career, usually with their own struggles in balancing work and family life. They are incredibly supportive of familial duties and don’t hold family responsibilities against you. Sounds logical? Unfortunately, I have been in working environments where this was not the case. It makes you appreciate the added level of support even more!"
Name another mom who inspires you? Why?
"At this stage of my life, there are many inspirational moms in my circle of family & friends - with their own daily struggles doing the best they can and giving it their all each day. I can’t list one – but I can list 50 easily."
#ChangeMakerMoms make #FutureBoss kids - how does your child inspire you?
"My kids are still very young and full of imagination! By nature, I am a logical thinker more data driven than creative. Being around them forces me to think different. I relish their imagination & creativity. Santa Claus, Leprechauns, Easter Bunnies, Tooth Fairies…we will be keeping these alive in our household for as long as possible!"
What’s your pump-up song for starting your day?
"Depends on the day. Most weekdays, it is just the morning routine playing in my head. On running days, it is The White Stripe’s ‘Seven Army Nation’. On weekends it is Preservation Hall Jazz Band. However, I am currently on a prolonged Hamilton soundtrack kick."
Drop some organizations you are passionate about that gives back to women and/or momma's around the world.
"Concern, Doctor’s Without Borders."